Private Investigators, phone 1300 966 103, are fair cheaper than the cost of an affair, infidelity, the loss of trust, the embarrassment, the time, and monies, diverted to the 'other' party and, of course, divorce lawyers! We are experienced in dealing with these matters. We can confirm or deny a suspicion, we can verify a fact. We know how to find proof. For 24/7 contact email us at [email protected], free quotes.
There is the emotional costs, the disbelief, the anger, the lack of understanding why this is happening, the loss of trust. An affair, adultery, infidelity, suspicion in a relationship, can be corrosive. This can lead to rash judgments and poor decisions.
The cost of a cheating partner are, generally the time, and money, stolen from the family, that should have been invested in the relationship, and family goals. There is the intangible, the loss of trust, of faith, especially for the person who was the victim of the infidelity. Few relationships are simply, and trying to ascertain who was the victim is a multifaceted beast, given the emotions, the opinions, will differ.
From time to time we will observe a case where there is an obvious victim, and obvious perpetrator. That is where the person having the affair is the person with the power, the control, in the relationship. Other matters are not as clear cut, if you delve more deeply. On one level both parties may be aggrieved. However we provide a service to our client, who is generally the person not having the affair, they are the obvious victim.
This is deeper than most private investigators are required to go. Our role is to restore some power, some control, back to the victim of infidelity, not to judge. We provide evidence, which permits them to make decisions, to move forward.
Private Investigation is often dealing with the
emotional side of the problem, the need to know, the need for
independent confirmation, for the client. When you need a discreet, experienced, private
investigator to investigate, contact us. Yes, we have done this before. Our role is to apply practical services, legal services, usually surveillance services, to answer the clients questions.
When you start to suspect an affair,
infidelity, to form a relationship suspicion, do not challenge them,
start gathering evidence. Keep a diary, take note of what is happening.
Use a private investigator to gather evidence, discreetly. You may not
have had to do this before, but we have, successfully, for many clients.
In the longer term there may be the need to
confirm that they have done what you suspected they would. For some, the
actual relationship may have separated already, or split, and they are
seeking to confirm what they expected to happen, that the person has
moved on, or moved in, with another person. Sometimes they are
considering getting back together, and want to check the honesty of the
other partner.
There may be a change in attitude towards the opposite sex, for some; there may be signs of abuse. This may be by the partner having the affair, or by the other partner, after the separation. A major upheaval has impacts, and people's perception of who caused what may not be logical.
There is the financial cost of an affair, the money diverted to the 'other' person, the hidden funds you never knew about. The money snookered away overseas, the assets you had no idea about, the hidden bank accounts.
This is relevant to the divorce property settlement,
and also being able to live, after you separated. If leaving gather
copies of documents before you go, rather than regret you didn't later.
Should you decide to proceed to court there are the costs of the private investigator, the legal representatives. There may then be the cost of support for children, the sale of assets at less than ideal values, business's dissolved, loss of use of things such as vehicles, the emotional cost of a draining court experience. This is why we advise planning, from the first suspicion, and ensuring you have financial support, and evidence of assets.
There is the loss of family, children can be pulled
away, they may also play one parent against the other; they may be
manipulated by a parent or grandparents. Family may collude to hide
income and assets, from the former partner.
Divorce is an ugly thing, it changes many relationships. A divorce itself is not expensive, the surrounding court cases with regards child custody; the divorce property settlement, costs. The private investigator is there to provide research, surveillance evidence, and advice.
Adultery is not new, but it is not pleasant. Each
person must decide how they will deal with it, what they will accept,
what they can change and how they will deal with it. No-one else can
tell you what to do, or how you should act or react.
That is YOUR decision, it is your relationship. For an article on signs of an affair. Choose wisely, contact us for a private investigator if you need to investigate, to get the evidence; call us for a free quote.
